A Sunday At Khar Gymkhana
One of those rare Sundays when one forgoes a laid back brunch, total family time, which includes hubby seriously, excitedly, animatedly and may I add successfully venturing into the precincts of the kitchen to conjure up a fancy Continental, Thai or Moghlai delicacy, preceded by a detailed account of its origins, the addition of rare spices, in-depth evaluation of the delicacy of flavour, and the expectant look on his face waiting for that ‘Aaah..Brillant’ exclamation from sunny n me.
Yesterday however was different..see pics. The event was fun, peppered with some interesting sporty folks and a hugely excited crowd.
Not a great lover of Sports in general but passionate about cricket in particular… loved the play..but hated the coffee..wish they’d do something about it.
You wont believe this but Khar Gymkhana was a regular haunt for me and my caboodle even when(thousands of years ago) sheep grazed there(not exaggerating) at 4.00p.m every evening, while we kids from the neighbourhood, descended there for cricket n whatever. The card room was a single table with a sad, naked bulb overhanging and the only snacks available were ‘bhajias n tea’..How its changed!! As has the rest of the suburb. I am undecided however whether it gladdens or saddens me to see my neighbourhood, unrecognisable.
It does give one a feeling of reminiscence..for the good ole days when Helen( the legendary dancer) was a few bungalows away, S.D. Burmans quaint Burmese style cottage replaced with Raheja Buliders on Linking Road , Pali Hill was a fully viewable hill, Meena Kumari and Kamal Amrohi, a hop and skip away, Sanjeev kumar, next to them..oh! I could go on and on.. there were only bungalows across the whole stretch..we all knew each other, several miles this way and that.
Life was simple, uncomplicated, and serene..I never heard of housebreaks. We lived on the first floor of a bungalow which had these open balconies and terraces and my father never once considered putting up security grills..it was open to view and to the sky. Today its impossible to imagine living in such abandon.
Ours was a quiet, shaded, green road, where an afternoon siesta was not an implausibility..hardly disturbing..the sounds of cars and horns..However, now, even up to 4 a.am. there are sounds of tyres screeching on sharp turns and blaring blaupunkts..sigh.
Discos, nightclubs, Olive and Golds gym..thats Khar now..and ofcourse Aishwarya Rai’s residence.
Until one does not experience a change, how can one value the unchanged?
However, home is home..I reckon. A space chosen for you to live out the journey destined , a path charted, with its stops and halts, and a space to rest when tired and weary of life and its demands..for me presently Khar ..again..( Wondering if it has to do with the initials of my name, “K”??…naah Ekta doesnt live here
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yo! got ur mail, read it n have sumthingz to say et all… sumtime later.. now this reel-real hit on looks too stretched nah
this one is cute, not on the debating platter types.. sweet, mushy, overall colourful!
guess somthings are meant to changeover n sumthings never change in life… its upto us to live through n value those- cross of changes
the din n hustle of life… we are all trying to lose ourselves in that… just trying not to feel the pain.. like skimmin the milk..
the flashes of joint family, the house where u cud hide for dayz n imagine strange magics of life around… friends who never knew how to pull n run ahead… sumwhere ya, its the music of dayz gone by when there was no shadow lines..
now home? for me rests far away n i hope i wud be there soon… not for anything but just to be there.. alas!! not yet… not yet!
Comment by saptarshi — November 13, 2006 @ 8:17 pm
I think you are lucky living in the area you are.Besides Malabar hill and Worli sea face,this is the only one which has impressed me when I was there..Is it true that a membership in Khar gym is 10 lacs today?
Comment by sanjay — November 14, 2006 @ 2:36 pm
Ive attended a cupla weddings there and dassera celebrations
and doesnt Ashutosh gowariker and Aamir also live there? right near the gym if I remember right.
i remember someone telling me that manoj kumar lived there near the gym..right? Actually linking road and KFc is a regular haunt as also Papa poncho..been there?
Comment by neha — November 14, 2006 @ 6:00 pm
Hi Sapt,
Savour your period away from home to relish the times spent within its warm embrace.Home-coming should always and will always then be awaited with a deep longing…’aye mere pyaare watan” Remember Kabuliwallah?
Hi Sanjay,
Long time no see..welcome back. Yes, the suburb is good , but the Khar of around a decade ago was heaven.About the membership, I doubt if it is even open any more.They are a fussy lot.If it is, that would be the asking price..yes.
Hi Neha,
Gosh the dassera celebrations is not a time I look forward to.Non-stop hour of ear piercing bombs is a nightmare for me..We normally leave home and go off to our week end place. Ashutosh is close by and so is Aamir. Manoj kumar is no longer here. He used to live on the 15th road.
Papa Poncho used to be a haunt but the last few times have been very disappointing, burnt Tandoori chicken, bread pakoras in punjabi curry, watery and tasteless, uncooked rajma..no way.so have stopped frequenting the place.
Comment by kaveetaakaul — November 14, 2006 @ 6:20 pm
Great pics Kaveetaa!! I have not had the pleasure to enjoy much Indian traditional foods; but, I used to absolutely love chicken curry!! My sister, whom made it in the late 70’s; made it so spicy; I would break out in a sweat while eating it… I loved it!
I used to use a spice I’d found way back when; called: Chinese Five Spices. Absolutely delicious spice!! I used it with meat, and vegetable dishs…
with loving kindness,
North
Comment by North — November 15, 2006 @ 9:30 pm